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Monday, May 2, 2011

For A Lifetime, I'll Love You

Last night we were sitting on the couch; eyes fixed on the news. We were both silent, the only sound was the TV telling us that Osama Bin laden is dead. I moved and adjusted a little and very quickly felt Cale’s grasp tighter around me. When I turned to look at his face, he had a very serious and sad expression. “What’s wrong?” I asked. “It’s sad.” “What’s sad?” “He died.” I was confused and thinking that Cale was probably confused as well. “Do you know who it is?” At that point, Cale with tears in his eyes said in a very serious soft tone, “Our President.” Poor Guy! I was trying so hard not to laugh! It’s so sad that he’s all mixed up and confused, but it was so funny!

I then went on to explain how Barak Obama is our president and not Osama Bin Laden. It was interesting because he didn’t remember Bin Laden. He is a soldier, deployed twice, and in Intelligence and he didn’t remember that name. After my explaining, he remembered when I brought it up when President Obama came on TV. This brain injury is just too much sometimes! Haha…keeps things interesting! ;)

So, I switched face cleanser products a couple weeks ago. A lady in our church and a good friend started selling Mary Kay. I decided to give it a try! Well, I’ve been using a line that they have and so far I like it. My chin has still been breaking out though, so I thought I would try the acne specific cream. I looked at the ingredients and knew that my overly sensitive face would not agree, but I went for the cream anyways. Bad idea. I woke up this morning with swollen eye lids, and a very red puffy face…! It was burning and itchy, and really tight. Around 2:30 this afternoon, the puffiness was finally going away. It’s still really red though! I caked on a little make up, but it didn’t cover it all the way! This has happened in the past with similar products and others. I asked Cale if I looked like an alien, he said, "If you did, you'd be a beautiful alien!" Adventures… :)

This morning when Cale woke up, I gave him a goal for the day and challenged him to see if he could meet it. Guess what? He did!!!! The goal for the day was for him to walk around the house with no help-no walker-no cane-no Kathleen. He’s been doing so good with the cane that I wanted to give him a little nudge to keep getting stronger. He did use the walls a lot, but for the most part I kept reminding him that he can do it, so he would walk. Its slower going and I can’t just let him walk all over yet by himself, but he did it! He even told me at one point that it was hard, but that didn’t stop him!!! I’m so proud of him for working at it!

Here is Cale after making his goal!! :)

We had a GREAT day! I got up this morning and with my red puffy face, I got some things done before he woke up. Then, I was able to get showered and ready and actually be with him. We played Sorry and Crazy 8’s, laughed, and played with Basil. It was so much fun! I talked with Mama last night about what I realized was happening. I know I’ve been saying I’m tired and that’s what has been making all of this so hard, but that’s not it. Well, in a sense. I realized that I am constantly in a battle with Cale. There is no nurse around to do the dirty work. I have to fight with him to get him to take his meds, I have to fight with him to eat something (other than Mc Donald’s-his new obsession), I have to fight with him about this being his home, I have to fight to get him to brush his teeth, I have to fight to get him to exercise, and now I have to fight to get him to drink water! Maybe “fight” isn’t the right word, but it’s what I’m going to use. It feels as though I’m constantly having to fight to make things happen and not getting to be the wife. All these things are important, but he doesn’t like any of them! I’m the person that has to make things happen and with a stubborn TBI husband, things can be tough. He’s not a child, so I can’t go about things as if he was-to a point.

Things aren’t all better and figured out, but it helped today so much (where I was coming from), to understand what was happening! I’m surprised I didn’t think of it before!

Please be praying for this!

Cale laid down for a nap but it wasn’t very successful. I was on the couch reading my Bible, sipping some yummy coffee, and listening to the rain. Basil was sleeping on the other half of the couch and things were calm. About 15 minutes later, I hear Cale talking…he was leaving me a voicemail. I decided to just wait and see if he would fall asleep. About 10 more minutes and again I hear him talking! I was going to stay put, but I decided it would be a lot more fun if I went and snuggled up next to him! It gave him a really big smile and felt so nice for us to have some snuggle time in the middle of the day. We haven’t done that for way too long!

After we decided we should get back up, we started another game of Sorry and Joe and Beth showed up! It was fun getting to see them and play some more games!

We’ve been slowly writing a catchy little tune together since we were at Palo Alto. We’ve finished (or at least part of it) over this last week, and I thought I’d share it with you. I love singing it with Cale because I sing and he adds in…it’s so sweet!

I love you, oh yes I do
You are amazing, to me
Caleb Michael, I said I do
For a lifetime,
I’ll love you.


  1. AHHHH !!!
    True love waits, and then holds tight, it never leaves it stays and fights! It says the things you NEED to hear and does the doing that is ever dear. True love laughs and sometimes crys, it reaches dreams, won't let them die, it keeps peace within its hands, comforts,supports, and understands. True love dances and twirls and leaps, it slowly spins, and dips and sweeps, the dance may have a thousand beats, and each one in my hand you keep. True love waits,and true love stays....My Darling girl true love prays .....

    MDB 2011

    Kathleen I have seen you ~ in all your ways you continue to be faithful to HIM who has you in his hands and to him who's heart holds yours ! I love your little song, and I know that Jesus does too!!! Hang in there, I know this has got to be hard on you..... I love how you focus on the positive and sandwhich the negative stuff in the middle- so it can't overwhelm you !!!! God is Good and Faithful- He is always interceeding on our Behalf and Praying for us !!!!! (again true love ;) ) Prayed for you today ! ((()))) hugs !!!

  2. It is so great to hear that Cale is walking without a cane or walker some at home. I am glad that you guys are enjoying your home in Washington. I wasn't sure if you have used Proactiv but it has been helping me out with my acne breakouts. Certain acne products will make it worse but the Proactiv seems to work great for me. It was just a suggestion for you. I hope you and Cale have a great day. I continue to keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers.

    In Christ,
    Jennifer Williams
    Greenville, NC

  3. JUST, I love you and am proud of you. Father chose the right person to be Caale's wife. Don't ever let satan tell you otherwise. Father has you right where He want's you. Much love, Marion


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